February 11, 2019

I wrote recently about how the world needs more Lovers — people who say yes to life in all its forms and refuse what is not life-giving both at home and in the world. 

This idea has caught my imagination and I’ve been playing with, gathering, and exploring what it means...

December 22, 2018

A key tantric idea that Erik and I play with a lot is “Everything is an Experiment.” Erik likes to say, “Doing the same thing is an experiment too. But don’t expect different results.”

It strikes me that the holidays are a great time to experiment as it’s a time that te...

December 4, 2018

Here is one of Erik and my favorite experiments to shake things up and re-connect.

Temple Time is sacred time or simply "time set apart" from regular life. It’s a practice to go deep with your lover. It is also an incredibly powerful way to create a “container” in whic...

November 30, 2018

One way to frame the work that Erik and I are doing with couples is that we are creating a link from being a good and skilled lover in the intimate sense to being a good and skilled lover to the world.

Inspired by our study of Tantra, our friendship with people like Mar...

April 4, 2018

A major principle in Tantra is the healing power of pleasure. Pleasure and play are not frivolous or pleasant extras after your work is done. Rather, they are vehicles for connection with the divine and the source of creative juice. Pleasure is intimately tied to our a...

November 20, 2017

This is a process of exploring your formation. You'll discover ideas and forces that helped create who you are. This is a process of mapping your child view of the world that you have carried into the present. You will explore moments in your life, particularly mom...

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