

Tantric Experiments for the Holidays: Change it Up and Gather the Data
A key tantric idea that Erik and I play with a lot is “Everything is an Experiment.” Erik likes to say, “Doing the same thing is an...


Temple Time: a Practice for Lovers
Here is one of Erik and my favorite experiments to shake things up and re-connect. Temple Time is sacred time or simply "time set apart"...


The New Macho: An Antidote to Adult Boys Running Amok
I like being macho. Amelia likes my macho when I direct the full force of my masculinity towards her, use it to create a safe space, plan...